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Everyone is looking for perfection these days. All relationships are just mirrors reflecting back to you your wounds and character defects. You can choose to blame the other person for your discomfort or look at yourself and ask “what’s going on with me that this hurts so bad?” ⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Ultimately forgiveness and love are the keys to any serenity or happiness. You can hold on to a grudge or you can let it go. You can simply accept your man for who he is or you can spend hours, days, months and years trying to change him when all you’re doing is pushing him further away and making yourself that much more unhappy all the way. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
A real love story is going to have challenges, big and small. The ones who make it are the ones who stay together through thick and thin. Who chose to love unconditionally and chose to forgive. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We create our own suffering, we create our own drama = fear. We create our own problems and just like that we have the choice to change, we have the choice to heal our wounds because again - relationships are just that, opportunity to grow and work on ourselves. Our partner simply reflects to us our character defects. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Try living in gratitude rather than resentment. Saying thank you for showing me my pain bodies and thank you for showing me that this disturbs me so I know I can look within and do some work to try and heal. ⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
What have challenges have you been through with your man or men in the past that at first you blamed them but now can see that it was you?