Softness Photos & Videos

15 minutes ago

Softness. Something I lacked as a child. When I grew up I often felt lonely and unloved. I tried to be a perfect girl, worthy of love and appreciation. Grew some walls around me and became tough. Survived a lot of shit. The last years I've been going to psychoteraphy trying to learn a new, softer way to live. To connect to myself and others. Trust that there is no need to panic, save anyone, flee or over achieve. I've worked hard and spent a lot of money and time on my personal softness project. So happy I came across gestalt therapy, that is not so much about sitting and talking but more about connecting. Interacting and experiencing, connecting to your body and the current moment. Something many of us needs to learn in the time of speed. I'm starting to feel very good in my skin. Very real. There is almost nothing left of that perfect girl. Just softness and acceptance. Towards myself and others. It all starts within. #lifestory #instablog #elämänpeli #deepshit #gestalttherapy #gestaltpsychology #softness #pehmeys #elämä #lifestory #psychotherapy #hahmoterapia #naturephotography #luontokuva #thoughtsonlove #instablogg #toughlife #tarina #kanerva #forestdetails #canon7d #7d #50mm

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4 hours ago

1Q is an app where you get money for answering questions and surveys, they'll send it to your paypal! Use my LINK IN BIO (www.1Q.com/peen92) to get a bonus $0.25 when you download the app! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #explorepage #viral #aestheticmemes #softaesthetic #aesthetic #nichememes #adolescentcontent #funnyvideos #humor #memesdaily #memes #finsta #broke #mountaintown #mountainlife #cabinlife #softgirl #egirl #softboy #eboy #soft #softness #igerstucson #littlespace #gothgoth #nugoth #poppunk #seapunk #Beyoncé #Beyhive at Eugene, Oregon

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8 hours ago

Pottering around the house, I was listening to a podcast by @betsypake and she began telling a story about how she observed beautiful flowers, blooming in a garden. Vivacious, open and fragrant. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Not far away, she saw the same species of flower, closed up and not ready to blossom. “They’re just not ready yet” she said. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And I breathed a deep sigh, as I hung out another shirt on the line. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I realized a truth in that illustration. The beauty isn’t in either closed or open form. Of course, full bloom allows all the layers to be seen, but they exist, even in the quiet, closed bud. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ How many times have we felt like we were holding on, while our outer world demands us to open? Wants us to conform and look like all the other flowers. The rush to beauty and ripeness. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Perfection, in that loudness, would be a gentle voice saying “Right now, she is closed, she is beautiful. She is just needs a minute; She isn’t quite ready yet.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Everything is perfect, as it is, in her own time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 📷 @petalinefloral at Byron Bay, New South Wales

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10 hours ago

You can tell someone you need your space in a nice way and in a way that can #trigger people. Instead of saying, "I don't want to hear that now," say: "I see you're feeling bad and want to talk. I'm really busy now. Can it wait? Because if it can't, maybe someone else is free to listen? I do hope you feel better soon." And if someone is a #storyteller, and you don't enjoy their stories, don't invite them. By telling them to shut up, you're forcing them to be someone they're not. #befair #beempathic #behonest #begentle #empathy #narcissism #harshness #softness #attentiveness #gentleness #begentle #awareness #beaware

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13 hours ago

Taking a little time to sit outdoors in the park. Thanks to modern technology I was able to visit with my brother in a different country in a video call. The wonderful temperature and the feel of the soft wind caressing my skin is a delight. So grateful for the beautiful day. #beautifulday #softness #soothing

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16 hours ago

She owns the strength of all the women who came before her, and all who haven't arrived yet. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ :⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ :⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ :⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ :⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ :⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Jacket from @williamevanscanada⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ corset by @ivyrosedesigns⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ photo by @ambersunphotography⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #poised #shopyyc #poise #likeaboss #velvet #tbalife #brassbuttons #internationaldanceday #gracious #whatshewore #softness #gentleness #businessoutfit #dressforsuccess #officefashion #powersuit #workclothes #worklook #workchic #fashionobsessed #suitedup #pocketsquare #suited #suitandtie #tailoredsuit #dapperlydone #tuxedo #suitedandbooted

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