Selfworth Photos & Videos

4 minutes ago

It's tough to realize that some of the pain you endured was because you let it happen. You will be the only one to have your own back. So, take accountability, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and carry on.

9 minutes ago

Most of us base our self-worth on comparisons and competition. We think about succeeding in terms of someone else failing–that is, if I win, you lose; or if you win, I lose. But life isn't supposed to be like that. Instead of seeing life as a competitive arena, let's view life as a cooperative one. Think win-win!

12 minutes ago

Learned a lot over the past few days. Within the blink of an eye things can change. Forgive the ones that betray, forgive the ones that lie, that blame, forgive anyone who has hurt you and remember that GOD sees those that take advantage of you. Those people are broken and are not happy. Those people will never change and continue to destruct and affect anyone who comes in to contact with them! Remember to love yourself and to focus on the things that really matter!!! Don’t ever let anyone steal your joy or thunder. I know I’m letting everything go and I’m going to let GOD handle it! #godsplan #heseeseverything #letitgo #findyourinnerbeauty #selfworth

17 minutes ago

We all know that feeling. Butterflies in the stomach, daydreaming, only wanting to be with that one person. Love is a wonderful beautiful emotion. But love is much more than that. It is an action, a verb, a decision. Love is choosing to be present, participating and active, even when the emotion is not there. Without action, love is just a word. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • #instalove #instalife #love #selflove #loveyourself #selfcare #selfworth #happiness #motivation #motivational #text #words #wordporn #ink #thoughts #feelings #emotions #ideas #literature #heartache #heartbreak #lovestory #lovers #couple #marriagegoals #marriage #couplegoals #baegoals #choselove

24 minutes ago

My #celebacy journey has brought me so much peace! Y’all just don’t know. No drama, no questioning someone’s intentions, none of that. Damn is it beautiful!! #peaceofmind #selfworth

24 minutes ago

I am not sorry for who i have grown to become, every scar tells a story of my journey💖 grown to become a beutiful flower🌹🌷🌸 #selfworth #loveyourself #beautifulwomen

25 minutes ago

This is my spin on this lovely quote: When it becomes more painful to revert to old ways, that is when your wings emerge. . . I have battled many struggles throughout the span of my life thusfar- all in search of happiness, or at least coping through sadness and pain. . . Many of these coping mechanisms were destructive and left me in a state of misery- the most obvious outward signifier being severely obese for the better part of my life, as food was my drug of choice. . . It has taken a year (longer even, although the bulk of the #emotionwork was completed in 2018) to work through those painful things from the past - which were the driving forces leading me to abuse food in the first place. . . The result has been clarity, peace, and losing 100 unwanted and no longer needed pounds. . . I am happy that my wings have emerged & look forward to sharing the methods and processes I've employed and continue to employ to reach this place. . . That is not to say the struggles have subsided, I am simply better equipped now than I have ever been to cope and heal. . *Lovingly borrowed from @elliotcounseling . . #transformation #weightlossjourney #healing #emotionalhealth #mentalhealth #spiritual #health #change #growth #improvement #selfworth #selfesteem #emotionalhealing

30 minutes ago


33 minutes ago

Ok so.... do you have a magic number in your head that when you hit "this age" all changes?? For me, that age is 40... well, has been 40.... for the past 4 years... I've been telling myself that "I'll have my shit together by the time I turn 40"... and I have done some incredible work on myself the past 4 years... and as I approach 40... I'm realizing that having my shit together isn't the be all end all.... if I turn 40 and I don't have my shit together, then what??? Nothing!!!! Nothing will happen... and yes, maybe there are still things I'm working on, but.... I will always be working on myself... to be a little better than I was yesterday... that's what I am aiming for now... so when that day come and I wake up 40... I will just try to be a little bit better than I was my last day of being 39!!! #lifecoach #personaldevelopment #spirituality #empoweringwomen #strongwomen #resilience #selfworth #singlemom #motherhood #ldnont #londonontario #empowerment #selfhealing #risesisterrise #reiki #happiness #passion #selflove #followme #positivity #turning40inApril

38 minutes ago

Seriously though... you good enough. 🏆❤️🙏🏼👊🏻 with me? at Frisco, Texas

42 minutes ago

#TimeToTHINK 🕰 I set my social media pages up at the end of November last year. The last year or so had been a complete rollercoaster of emotions. The highest of highs, a huge amount of change in my personal life, increased stress and anxiety... and my body simply could not cope with it. I became so ill. This resulted in me (and those closest to me) having to go through the most difficult chapter of my life. But I’ve come out the other end, I’ve learned so much about myself, how to look after myself and this has also given me the opportunity to stop, reflect... TimetoTHINK I set this page up because only now after what I’ve gone through, do I really understand and appreciate the importance of our mental health and how having a more “pro-active” approach to it is essential to looking after your mind and body. Exercise has always been my go-to way to manage stress and anxiety. The reason why I am so passionate about what I post about is because I have experienced first hand how beneficial it has been both helping me recover and also to feel better everyday for living an active lifestyle and eating better. Getting away for a couple of weeks has been incredible. I’ve laughed, had so much fun, found myself, realised what is important to me and am going home tomorrow with a new renewed passion for life. But I have made a decision to take a break from this and all social media for a little while. I’m not sure for how long, but I am sure that I will be back and will continue with what I have started. I just know it’s best for me to come home and focus on myself and my life in a more private way for now. I hope my honesty, openness and passion for what I believe in has made some of you think differently about how you think about mental health. Thanks for following, Andy 💚 #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthwarrior #mentalhealthwarriors #proactivementalhealth #blog #blogger #mentalhealthblog #mentalhealthblogger #healthymind #healthybodyhealthymind #quotes #drseussquotes #drseuss #drsuess #quotestoliveby #selfworth #wellbeing #break #socialmediabreak #seuss #bournemouth #bournemouthblogger #healthylifestyle #priorities #lifelessons at Bournemouth

53 minutes ago

It’s OK to not have it together all the time. Lately I’ve been having a lot of “monday blues” kind of days. Struggling to be the motivated and driven person I’ve always been. Today I was reminded that God isn’t just the god of our success and victories—He is the god of our defeats, the god of my struggle. His name is Jesus, and he is full of mercy, full of grace, & full of truth. at Atlanta, Georgia

3 hours ago

A confident woman is not afraid to be herself, because she knows her God. Whether she is plain, simple, and beautiful or flamboyant and fabulous, the key is that she knows who she is. She understands her purpose and her gifts. She knows that there are certain things only she can contribute to this world, at this time, in this place. ☆ : : : #womenofgod #womenofpurpose #soulhealer #womenofimpact #soulcare #selfmastery #confindent #servantleadership #selfworth #selfawareness #lovethyself #youareenough #beliveinyourself #womeninspiringwomen #selfmovitation #powerfulwomen #motivator #womenempowerment #selfmastery #higherfrequency #womenoffaith #womenofgod #sheislight #wordsofwisdom #dailyinspiration #speakyourtruth #knowthyself #itsallwithinyou #wealthmindset #inspire #mentor #womenpreneur at Los Angeles, California

3 days ago

HEY YOU, GOOD LOOKING! Yes, I am talking to you. You are a work of ART! Not everyone will understand you but the ones that do, will never forget about you! Be you, it’s your SUPERPOWER! 🔥 Please remember everything you want and aspire to be, you already are. You just need to discover it within yourself and learn how to manifest your superpowers. We all have them! Is it self-esteem esteem? Is it not caring what others think? Is it being true to yourself? Is it self-acceptance? The people would love some input! Share your SUPERPOWER below👇 HELP OTHERS by sharing your weird in one word & make someone smile today bc they were able to relate to your courageous effort to leave a comment for the greater good. - #femalebadass #goafterwhatyouwant #bekind

16 days ago

Behind every strong, independent woman lies a broken little girl who had to learn how to get back up and not depend on anyone. 👠 I am powerful, because I believe that I am and I owe no one an explanation of what moves me. I create my journey, it’s up to me to make my dreams come true by never giving up when I hear the word “no” or to keep moving forward. Comment below👇 “I am awesome” and remind yourself how much of a badass you are while motivating others to do the same. 💙💯🙏 - #believeinyourself #femalebadass #goafterwhatyouwant at New York, New York

17 days ago

I was facing 3-15 years in prison for people pleasing & this groovy guy @richard.hornsby fought for & won my life back for me in a grand trial jury in 2007. People pleasing stemmed from not knowing who I was, not caring to find out, and using others as a distraction to not work on bettering myself. I was red handed caught for trafficking. I’ll never forget what it felt like to have a shield pressed against my window, the coldness of an big ass gun that reminded me of an AK-47 barrel pushed up against my skull and being asked to lay on the ground. I thought jail was bad but I got out and found out I had to either hurt people to get out my situation by setting other drug dealers up for the same exact charge to reduce my sentencing or take it to trial. Thank god for my mom loving me so much she put the house up for a 2nd mortgage to pay for my criminal defense attorney; which wasn’t her 1st pick. She wanted to go with the person who had the most experience, the most expensive. She wanted me to have the best. It didn’t feel right. I asked my mom if we could meet Richard Hornsby, he was a younger guy with his own firm, didn’t have nearly as much experience but had never lost a case. It’s hard to explain but his intensity, personality, and heart reminded me of myself. I could feel that he really gave a shit. I picked him and I know my mother was terrified but she allowed me to determine my future with her money. I would get frustrated while aggressively walking out of his office, down the street, and he chased me down. He had a way of being able to get through to me, to calm me down, and to help me think logically. I didn’t make it easy. I didn’t care enough about myself to want to put in the work. He did and he barely knew me. My trial was the longest 6 days of my life, it really is like you’re in a movie but it is your life hanging in the hands of 12 jurors. We won. I didn’t think we were going to, I think Richard was hesitant himself. I remember them saying the verdict not guilty, looking up at Richard, seeing him cry & we hugged. 10 year FB notification. The best reminder that someone believed in me when I couldn’t. #femalebadass #nevergiveup #helpothers at Orange County Corrections Department

26 days ago

Soul Food Reminder: It’s takes faith to follow your purpose. Over the years, I’ve learned that if you spend your life pursuit of your purpose, that answers and opportunities will ALWAYS show up. But it takes FAITH. It takes work. It’s takes trusting yourself that Yes, you CAN make a difference, and that YES, you are meant to do this work and NO, God did not make a mistake or chose the wrong person for the job. God doesn’t call the qualified, He qualifies the called! : : : : #soulfoodreminder #servantleadership #selfworth #selfawareness #selfawareness #lovethyself #youareenough #beliveinyourself #womeninspiringwomen #selfmovitation #powerfulwomen #womenempowerment #selfmastery #higherfrequency #womenoffaith #womenofgod #sheislight #wordsofwisdom #dailyinspiration #speakyourtruth #knowthyself #itsallwithinyou #wealthmindset #inspire #motivator #mentor #starzzzbootcamp #womenentrepreneurs #walkinfaith #longbeach at Long Beach, California

27 days ago

I remember the 1st night I met this amazing soul. For some reason, I felt the need to tell her I was gay (depending on the day😂) bc I felt a bit insecure that I had been contacting her husband for 6+ months due to the fact that he inspired the hell outta me and I was determined to work with him. I felt so #embarrassed after those words came out of my mouth, pretty sure we had just said hello and that’s it 😂 I looked up at her and she was smiling from ear to ear and said “I LOVE GAY PEOPLE!” and proceeded to talk about some of her best friends, how open-minded she is to accepting people for simply being themselves and happy. It blew me away and reminded me that amazing people still exist out there. Here’s what’s so awesome about taking risks, opportunities, going outside of your comfort zone to meet people that could change your life in all different forms. CS, has welcomed me into her home. She has listened to my crazy rants when I am feeling insecure. She has encouraged me to continue to work on becoming my best self and has never ever made me anything but important. This woman has helped me grow by being herself. She’s changed my #perspective on a lot of things and it’s helped me acknowledge so much more beauty in the world. She’s shared some truths with me that have made me not feel so alone. I wanted to take a moment and say how PROUD I am of this beautiful soul filled with compassion, empathy, and more kindness than I’ve ever experienced from another woman in such a short amount of knowing someone. You KILLED it last night & the fact that your event sold out makes my heart smile hard! TY for helping me grow, pointing out things I could work on and still being there. You motivate the hell out of me to get out of my own “shit” which isn’t easy for me. This is my way of saying, give everyone a chance, meet everyone, don’t let your thoughts dictate your future bc you never know who you’ll meet and how they’ll change your life. #supportyourfriends #femalebadass #mentalhealth at Epic Talks

2 months ago

I'm impressed by strong independent women. Especially women born in an Era where they were oppressed, undervalued and seen as never quite equal to a man. Women pressured into marriages while the men did as they pleased in brothels and casinos while wives waited on them at home. How beautiful is it to have opportunities now that many women didn't back then. Sidonie Gabrielle is a true inspiration. She rebelled against the conformaties women were pressured into and become n icon in the process. Just a few quotes from Sidonie. "Girls usually have a paper mâché face on their wedding day" "There is no need to waste pity on young girls who are having their moments of disillusionment, for in another moment they will recover their illusion." "The woman who thinks she is intelligent demands equal rights with men. A woman who is intelligent does not." #womanlikeme #musicvideo #girlpower #femaleentrepreneur #entrepreneur #strongwomen #l #womenentrepreneurs #womensupportingwomen #selfcare #selfworth #ladyboss #poetry #inspiration #loveyourself #womeninbusiness #transformation #havemore #expectmore #trustyourself #radicalresponsibility #personalresponsibility #bossbabes #selfacceptance #life #brave #resilient #s #women

11 months ago

I am extremely proud to be a part of this beautiful film and be on its soundtrack. It is a brave and empowering movie for this current generation that is told in a kind and genuine way. Do yourself a favor and and see it! @lovesimonmovie #comingofage #comingout #acceptance