2 hours ago
Being able to freely choose someone with no strings attached on either side changes the entire game. When someone can completely take care of themselves, you know they’re not with you for money or service, and vice versa. Depending on each other is great. Being dependent on each other? Mmmm it’s not for me. I will always have my own money, be able to fix things myself, have a therapist and a strong social network, etc. That way if I do date someone I can date them for them and not for what I’m missing.