28 days ago
last night, i had a really intense deep talk with one of my old friends in mid school. we are actually in the same age, but after listened to all the things that she's been through, i felt like i need to learn a lot of things from her.
she told me a simple but meaningful quote, to live the best version of my life and stop faking my kindness just to please everyone. i choked at first. yeah i had been spending my time pleasing people and sacrificing my own happiness just to make them be pleased. sounds so pathetic? right. not to be selfish, but what's the point, though? it felt so wrong in so many level. no matter how hard you've been trying, there's always people who against it, it means that they couldn't be pleased. don't you think it's a waste then? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ that's it, please stop wasting your time to please everyone, trust me, save it for yourself, please yourself and build your own happiness
callmeabeth at East Java