4 minutes ago
So true.. and people can be so full of shit.. I always say that when the chips are down is when you find out who your true friends are. I'm lucky to still have lots thank god.
When life is going well, you have a few quid in your pocket, you're sailing along everyone wants to know you, when things are bad people tend to judge and take the piss.... One if the worst years of my life when the boys were abt 2.. I was at College (so still on the dole) I was robbed 4 times in a year, my Mum had a stroke and and I went to court against my violent ex... I also had no support to date, go out, have fun as my eldest was too old to babysit. My eldest school used to ring me up to 4 times a week while at College. I felt like ripping the hair out of my head. I used to post a lot on facebook, maybe a bit lonely, but mostly bloody frustrated. I was a singleparent no one to share my day with I wanted to just let go of stuff. So what happened, I was judged by loads of people in my class, ended up unfriended by certain people. My class tutor bullied me (karma got her in the end and half the class ended up hating her a yr down the line) I basically found out that when the shit hits the fan is when people wanna put the boot in. Luckily for me lots of my new friends stick by me and I still know them to this day... and the garbage it took itself out. I will always always remember that year and the bitchiness and just how judgemental people are. I can empathise fully that people going through trauma act erratic at times, that they may want an outlet. This shit is part of the human condition.
If someone is a good person the majority of the time then you gotta let people have their moments. But then you've also gotta understand that some people have no empathy and don't give a fuck abt anyone else... x x x
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