6 days ago
The last few days I just proved to myself for the “N”-th time that we have to love ourself in order to be happy.
Self-love is our fuel. It’s the foundation for who we are. Everything builds on top of this foundation, and if it isn’t solid, life feels shaky. For those of us who have experienced the power of self-love, we can agree that the effects can often feel quite magical. The moment we start loving ourselves, we experience shifts, positive shifts. Life begins to move forward with more ease and things begin to magically fall into place. Relationships improve (if there is). Health improves. And life begins to feel good, really good, ridiculously good.
Loving you first and creating that deep, internal relationship has countless magical benefits. When you begin your love affair with yourself, you will 1) Recognize + prioritize your needs; 2) Gain a true sense of self; 3) Set loving boundaries; 4) Prevent self-sabotage; 5) Drop the victim mentality; 6) Give love without feeling depleted; 7) Find your own happy
I never seeking happiness outside of myself. Self-love helps me get my groove back. It’s simple, really. The more love I show myself, the better I feel. And the better I feel, the happier I am. I am in charge of my happiness, and self-love is the key to that.
Self-love is not selfish. Self-love is about connecting to my innermost needs, celebrating the freedom of being me, and honoring who I am truly are while dropping my destructive patterns. Loving myself is magical, it’s a divine relationship that will help me radically improve every single aspect of my life. So go on, drop the guilt, and embrace having a deep, loving relationship with YOU.
Have a fantastic week ahead!
————————————————————————- at Kelowna, British Columbia