20 minutes ago
It’s a special thing in life when you meet a partner who is growing at the EXACT SAME rate you are. When you meet a partner who wants to grow in a lot of the same ways you do. When you meet a partner who wants to live a very conscious existence in the exact same way you do.
I’m going to say this. If you’re really really into self-development and living a life of growth. Your partner MUST be the same. If they aren’t, it’s never going to work. At least it won’t work in a way that will ever leave either of you satisfied.
I’ve been asked the question before: “Can it work if only one person is really into self-development or one person is willing to do the inner work?”
And I always say: NO!
I mean, yes, it can work, but it will never actually be an incredible relationship if only one person is truly wanting to grow.
In a normal routine, @radicalselflove & I both study 2-3 hours every single day. We are both addicted to learning and expanding our minds. We study spirituality, health, psychology, money mindset, relationships, business…you name it. We have a book club the two of us where we meet every week and discuss the book. We set intentions. We do daily acknowledgements and affirmations. We co-create vision boards.
We will spend hours upon hours into the wee hours of the night talking about deep and epic life shit on a weekly basis.
Both of us want to live a magical, conscious, expansive life full of epic shit. WE’RE ON THE EXACT SAME PAGE.
We both are willing to face our shit. We both are willing to be uncomfortable. We both want to grow an expand into the most powerhouse version of ourselves. All the while, we’re willing to commit to our individual growth while continuing to grow and expand in our relationship together.
We’re growing individually, while also growing relationally.
It’s really magical to find someone who is a learning counterpart. Someone who wants all the same things in life. Someone who wants to co-create a life with so much fucking growth and magic.
To the degree where our union becomes this really fucking expansive being that is changing and transforming both of us into our untapped potential.
(CONT👇👇) at Vancouver, British Columbia