25 minutes ago
Yesterday afternoon was a different one. My ever smiling mother in law barged into my room filled with anger.
In our 3 years of friendship iv never seen her like this . I closed my laptop to give her full attention.
She fiercely spoke its the 3rd women coming up to me and saying this nonsense. I was a bit confused because This was extremely new to me . My mom in law has been always a lady who never complaints laughs things off.
This was something that needed attention.
She further carried on if another women comes up to me and asks "now you have a daughter in law and you still do basic house hold chores like you used to?you should sit on bed and order things around." I will give her a piece of my mind.
She further added how a few of women around her actually make things worse for working daughter in laws.
She raised a very thoughtful point that the lady telling her to order stuff around the house has two working daughters , she is a good support to them , then why is she telling otherwise for a daughter in law .
She further continued if a women supports another women in society , how petite issues which usually causes big troubles can be resolved. Its not that all the burden should be on one person ( either mom in law or daughter)
But if figured out things can be divided among all family members.
She said this much and ran back to kitchen to simmer the gas. I was thinking about this also typing a client mail.
She barged again ..peeped through the door apologised to break my flow of work and just made a sweet request .." can you share these thoughts for me online.? #supportwomen #womensday #march4women #family #story #feministart #femaleillustrator #female #thoughts #womenup #mother #marriage