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Here’s the thing: you will always be too much of something for someone. Too big, too small, too loud, too shy, too bold, too edgy, too whatever they think you are. And some people will try to make you what they need you to be. Don’t fall for it. Don’t think, not even for a minute, that changing who you are to fit someone else’s needs will make you more loved or wanted or appealing. Because if you round out your edge, you lose your edge. It’s your unique identity that makes this world a more colorful place and it’s that sparkle people so desperately are looking for in a dull world of routine ✨
Too often times, I felt like I was too much of something or too less of it. And it’s easy to feel that way in a world that is geared towards creating insecurities in us so they can sell us more stuff they claim is the solution to our “problems”... as if our imperfections are things we need to get rid of. We’re human... we are supposed to be real, not perfect. So own your scars, own your story and never look back. .
It’s only when you get 100% comfortable in your own skin and who you are as a human being, that you’ll come to understand that you will always be too much of something for some people... and that’s perfectly fine. Just understand that those people are not your people. They are the wrong people. And the earlier you get rid of them, the sooner you’ll start finding souls that cherish and appreciate every single piece of your wonderful imperfect being 💫 .
You see, you don’t like or love someone just because he/she is perfect. You find they’re prefect because you love them... even with their flaws. It’s what makes us human. It’s what makes us real. .
📸 Photo credit to the wonderful soul I randomly met in a cafe in London and with whom I became instant friends and explored the city... @akcakocairemnur hope to see you in Istanbul soon! .
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