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Some people enter our lives to teach us not to be like them. As Oscar Wilde loved to say: “Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go. – Oscar Wilde.” Nonetheless, even these people teach us something, even though they make us suffer, they give us the ability to act upon our feelings different than the way they do.
Viktor Frankl said that everything in life is potentially important and we can learn lessons from the things that made us suffer.
While sometimes we can not find the meaning of certain negative relationships, they really give us a vision of the world previously unknown to us.
In other words, it means that such experiences will teach us what to value and what brings us only suffering. They show us what we don’t want in and from life.
Our principles and point of view are solidified thanks to certain experiences we’ve been through.
Being witnesses of injustice and feeling great discomfort caused by the behaviour of others, helps us to think about our own principles and to reinforce our beliefs on what is good and what is bad.
Deception, coldness, self-centeredness do harm. I lot of harm. Sometimes, the best thing is when you can’t recognize the people who once surrounded you. There are people who end up showing what and who they really are, when they no longer need us, and they don’t even try to hide it.
When this happens, the pain itself makes us reassess our own priorities and behavior toward others. For this reason, sometimes experiencing bad situation make us better people.
It helps us to valorize other feelings and to encourage our growth. All this requires a great internal job, which will only allow us to move forward and not accumulate weakness, guilt or dissatisfaction.
Removing people who create problems is good for our health and the soul
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